Unfortunately, Russian scammers become so active the last years that for many the words
Russian (Ukrainian) dating and Russian (Ukrainian) girls
are connected with Russian scamming.
Are all Russian and Ukrainian women scammers?
Why do they exist?
The iron curtain was raised in the 90 th and Russian girls become popular. They differed from Western women, from American women.
Some of these differences are just myths, some are quite real.
When Perestroyka has just begun, it seemed that to live in Ukraine or Russia is very dangerous and unstable. You never knew what would happen tomorrow.
People rushed to leave the country. You live one time in your life and nobody wants to have hungry life with unstable future.
It was not easy to leave Russia and Ukraine . The most easy it was for girls. Russian and Ukrainian women have and had
highest proiority of family values before career and work, they wanted to have good quiet family life. In
Russia women are used to take good care of themselves - be slim, wear mini skirt, do make-up regurarly, be feminine and loyal.
Life in Europe and USA seemed a paradise- prosperous, happy, stable. Many beautiful girls sought for a husband
abroad. Some were looking there for love, some were looking just for a way to escape Russia. The last type of
girls did not choose, they just agreed to marry almost any man who wanted to marry them. And people are
different! They could marry a man 30-40 years older than them. And they just did not look at their future
husband as a man with whom they are going to live. Several years later Russian television was full of moaning
and complains of these women. They blamed all American and Western men, they warned other girls not to
marry them (interesting that in spite of this most of them did not leave their new country and returned to Russia to live).
But the life in Russia has changed and is changing. There are many very expensive cars that you can see in the
streets. There are many people that go to rest in resorts of Spain, Jamaika, other places. People in Russia can
buy expensive clothes from famous clothes designer.
If a girl wants to sell herself as expensively as possible and it does not matter to whom, she can do it easily
in Russia. When I go by car in the streets of St-Petersburg and see an expensive and rare car, I can say almost
for sure that it is driven by a beaituful blonde. These women can find rich boyfriends (usually not husbands)
here, especially in big cities, that give them cars, expensive clothes and holdiays in expensive resorts.
Most girls that come to the agency are not looking for the richest buyer.They wamt to find love, and it does not
matter for them where. They want to make their chances higher and so apply for international marriage agency. If
they find love in Russia, they will marry here, if they find love in USA, then they will move to their husband.
For some girls it matters where they find a husband. They do not want a Russian husband- they think that in
Russia men make worse fathers, and less loyal husbands than abroad. They have their right to look for husband outside Russia.
As I say these girls do not look for a way out of Russia or Ukraine, they look for a partner for friendship, sex. support,
mutual fidelity and they prefer men less than 10 years older than them(the usual age difference for partners in their contries).
But some men wants to believe in fairy tales.They think that Russia is so big and sure there is a blond beauty
there who is looking for a man just like them. And some marriage agencies with Russian and Ukrainian girls and scammer-artists
use this myth to get profit. Marriage agencies write on their pages that the big age difference is welcomed by
women some even omit this information in the girls' questionnaries.
We have sites with Russian and Ukrainian dating and dating site for disabled people. On the first type fo site Russian scammers
register in big numbers, on the sites for disabled Nigerian scammers- men and women register in big numbers. We
do not obviously activate their profiles, we have our means to recognize them. Interesting that they have one
trait in common. Women usually are 23-30 yo, young, beautiful, wishing to find a partner up to 60 (65). They
write eloquently that they are looking just for love, honesty and faithfulness and it does not matter anything
else. And men are caught! (Fortunately, only till the time when she will ask for money to come to him, or for
money to help her to get out of her problems).
Many men imagine that it is real Russian and Ukrainian girls who do it, they do not think about their future, but may be they will and will change in future.
No, nothing like that. Very often it is companies, where people are taken to work (and salary there are rather
big, especially for places far from Moscow and Kiev. It is a shift work, where some people write
letters, others talk on the phone, if needed, others take money by Western Union.
They prefer sites like match, yahoo, american singles where they can pay by fraudulent credit card, send as many
letters as possible with their emails before they are blocked and work on the men who answered them unhurriedly.
Men on these sites know less about Russian scammers, they are easier to work with. But of course, they also
register to different Russian dating sites.
But they are not plenty, they have just many names, many faces, many emails, many different sets of pictures.
Other Russian girls work, scammer-artists work on the sites, they do not have any other work. Russian girls
choose, they do not agree to any man, it does not matter for scammer-artists not the age, not the nationality
of their supposed victim. Only one thing is important if they will be able to make him send them money. Russian and Ukrainian
women can put not very good pictures, scammer-artists put only the pictures that gather the most number of men
(either model pictures of Russian and Ukrainian beautiful girls (singers, models and so on) or not professional photos of
innocent blondes, the pictures becoming more and more sexy with time. Russian and Ukrainian girls do not have a habit to fall
in love on the second-third letter and tell about love and honesty all the time. Scammer artists do have such
thing in common (it works in the best way with men who are tired from loneliness).
Yes , there are fairy tales in life and you can fall in love with Russian jr Ukrainian girl who will also fall in love with
you. But do not full yourself. Look for beauty in the face, in her eyes, see what she can be, do not follow only
girls with model pictures. In life they can be the same as the girls with non professional photos, who look less
glamorous on the site but who are more real and open for relationship.